They say love is blind, sex is deaf to reason and mocks all ..
Added 2024-06-14 08:24:24 +0000 UTCThey say love is blind, sex is deaf to reason and mocks all philosophical ideas. But in fact, sexual choices are the result of a person's underlying beliefs. Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I'll tell you his entire philosophy of life. Show me the woman he sleeps with and I'll tell you how he views himself. And no matter what nonsense he's been fed about the value of altruism, sex is the most selfish of all acts, an act that is done only for one's own pleasure. Just try to imagine the sexual act in a spirit of self-denial and benevolent giving - an act that is impossible in self-deprecation, only in self-aggrandizement, only in the certainty that you are desired and that you are worthy of that desire. This act forces a man to bare his spirit as well as his body, and to recognize his true self as the measure of his worth. A man is always attracted to a woman who reflects his deepest vision of himself, a woman whose conquest will allow him to experience - or pretend to experience - a sense of self-worth. A man who is sure of his own worth will want to possess the highest type of woman, the woman he adores, the strongest and most inaccessible, because only by possessing a heroine will he feel a sense of fulfillmentš
